This link and the comments crack me up. People don't know what to say, or very few anyway.
They mean well, people can't deal with their own shit most of the time. Why would they be able to say the right thing to me\you? They don't know the practicalities any more than I do. Why would they unless they've been there. It's not worth getting arsy at the, "I'll pray for you" "you're strong" "don't worry" I know that if asked anyone of most of the people who have spoken to me that if I needed a lift or something practical, that they'd be there. Most really want to help and make it better.
Here's the link....
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